Thursday, August 6, 2009

Audra's thoughts on the Mother of the Bride's attire

This is an important issue that needs to be discussed somewhat early on in the whole wedding planning process. Once your colors are picked and the bride has chosen her dress, I would not hesitate to start looking for the MOB dress. Being that the MOB (mother of the bride) has such an important role on the big day and that she gets a lot of attention, finding the perfect dress should be given the respect it deserves.

Most of what I have to say comes from my experience as the bride with a mother who chose the perfect dress, but to this day, second guesses herself. ( I really wish that she wouldn't because I was so proud that my mom looked so beautiful.)

She chose a floor length, green, beaded dress that complimented all of her features, including her short stature and big bosoms. (I think she will kill me after reading this) She brought it home from the designer shop and tried it on for me, all the while telling me that she could take it back if it wasn't appropriate or showed too much cleavage.

When she walked out of the room with this spectacular dress on, I could see how beautiful she felt and I wouldn't have taken that dress off of her for anything. Yes, I have to be honest and tell you it showed a little more cleavage than normal, but nothing that was over the top. She looked elegant and classy. It was perfect for her.

This is what I want you to think about if you are having issues with your mother and the dress she chose.

*Your wedding day is very important to her. Don't be too controlling over what she wears. Make sure she feels comfortable and beautiful in an elegant way. It will make the whole day go so much smoother. *

And don't forget to order a corsage for the MOB to add the finishing touch to her ensemble.