Here is a simple guide to help you figure out how much gratuity to give each of your vendors.
CATERER
Usually, the tip is agreed upon before hand and is included in the contract as "service fee" or "service charge".
WAITSTAFF
15%-18% of total bill
BARTENDERS
15%-18% of total bar bill
MUSICIANS or BAND
$25 per band member or musician
DJ
15% of total bill
LIMO DRIVER
15%-20% of bill
PARKING/RESTROOM/COAT CHECK/VALET
$.50-$2 per guest
Vendors who do not require or expect to get a gratuity:
FLORIST
PHOTOGRAPHER
BAKERS
WEDDING COORDINATORS
(If you find that any of these services have been extraordinary, a tip of 15%-20% is appropriate.)
OFFICIANT
Wedding etiquette says that an officiant is never tipped.
Make sure that you plan to include tips in your budget, because, depending on the size of your affair, tipping costs can become quite substantial, easily increasing your costs by hundreds or even thousands of dollars.